LIFE
We’re Going to Camp
Mike and I are four days back from our four weeks in Mexico. We were there, in part, for warmth and to escape the Idaho winter. Our main objective was to visit friends and family – and to celebrate my mother-in-law’s birthday (Jesus wasn’t the only one born on...
Compounding Benefits
The biggest benefit to focusing on my physical health is, hands down, the benefit to my mental and emotional health. Exercising in the morning sets the rest of the day up to be both positive and productive. Taking a break (at least a few weeks) from unhealthy products, whether that’s alcohol and/or sugar and/or processed foods, is liberating and rejuvenating.
The Sweet Life Retreats
When we decided to organize killer retreats, one for couples and one for writers (but both designed for positive, growth mindset-type people), we knew what we were getting into. Sort of. We know how to exceed expectations. We know the town of Todos Santos and how best...
The Trials of Travel
Part of it is respecting the fact that everyone needs their own time and space. Not just the adults, but also the kids. My twelve-year-old deserves an hour to read by herself just as much as I do.
The Falsehood of Definitions
There’s a presentation I do at writing conferences called “Success, Failure, and Other Myths of the Writing Life.” People get so caught up in words like “success” and “failure” and their perceived meanings. No one would argue that Hemingway was a success, but he also...
The Discomfort Zone
If we had given up and turned back during the bike trip, she would have walked away believing that “I can’t do it” is true. Instead, she saw it through to the end and now knows that while it might be hard, she is absolutely capable.
Family Camp
Wait. Writers Camp, Couples Camp, and now Family Camp? We’ll, we’re kicking around the idea. We have many friends who would love to attend Couples Camp (and whom we’d love to have join us), but they have young children whom they aren’t comfortable leaving with other...
Our Experience With The GRIT Challenge
If you keep thinking about it, you might never do it. Just rip the band-aid off and commit to investing in yourself right now.
LEGACY
Who Are the Heroes in the Room?
Recently we held our quarterly ImpactClub event. We have 230 members (who need not be present to participate). Each donates $100. We hear from 3 charities for 5 minutes each. Then the members at the event vote and the winning charity takes home the pot. 230 members x...
What Stands in a Storm
Why was I so impacted by this book? I’m aware of the fact that things like death and terror and tragedy are always present in the world, but those facts don’t put me in tears. And then I realized that that’s the power of Story.
What Is ImpactClub?
In its first two years, ImpactClub Boise donated almost $200,000 to the following organizations: Women’s and Children’s AllianceChrysalis Transitional LivingCreate Common GoodInterfaith SanctuaryWyakin FoundationThe Speedy FoundationWilderness Science EducationBoise...
Trust the Process
I wrote one word at a time, one sentence, one paragraph, one page, one chapter. Eventually, I had a manuscript. I had worked through the process.
Living a Better Story is Easier than Most Realize
“And once you live a good story, you get a taste for a kind of meaning in life, and you can’t go back to being normal; you can’t go back to meaningless scenes stitched together by the forgettable thread of wasted time.”― Donald Miller, A Million Miles in a Thousand...
The Gospel of Story
Story is how we tell each other what it is to be human.” When she said those words, you could feel the power of them wash over the room of writers.
Veterans Day, 2019
I thought about writing about my father today. He was a Veteran, though he died earlier this year and so now I guess I should be thinking about him on Memorial Day. But it’s not Memorial Day. It’s Veterans Day. And here’s the thing on that... In the past I’ve seen...
My Dream Office
I optimize my environment by knowing exactly what I need, while remaining adaptable. I know that stressing over the perfect environment is not optimizing it, but a form of procrastination.
LIVELIHOOD
No Such Thing As Stuck
Last year we helped our daughters start a business. They’re The Sugar Sisters. They make and sell cotton candy for birthday parties and other events. We also had pop-up cotton candy sales downtown on a few Saturdays. That was one hell of a sales lesson for my girls....
Duration has Nothing to Do with Intensity
I used to think working for 15 hours a day meant I was applying more intensity to my work and therefore expected better results from my efforts. But when I really examined where and how I spent each hour, I realized there was a lot of unproductive time mixed in. And when I say a lot, I mean it shocked me…
All Figured Out
I’m a born planner, so I’d like nothing more than to have everything all figured out. When I was ten I wrote out what my budget would be in my adult life. (Don’t worry, I accounted for inflation.) I listed my projected salary as a cartoonist and then deducted...
In Pursuit of Dreams
If you can shift your mindset to find pleasure in the pursuit, you end up making bigger strides. Not fantasizing about the end goal, but taking each necessary step to get there, being present along the journey and finding joy in the slog.
Tag-Team Parenting
This morning over breakfast, I told Mike about a project I’m working on and that I’m falling behind schedule. His immediate response was to carve out a portion of the day during which he would take the girls out and occupy them for a few hours. This is a perfect...
The Discomfort Zone
If we had given up and turned back during the bike trip, she would have walked away believing that “I can’t do it” is true. Instead, she saw it through to the end and now knows that while it might be hard, she is absolutely capable.
If You Build It, They Will Come… Not Actually True
I wonder how many people took that line from Field of Dreams and ran with it. I think a lot of people don’t realize that they’re operating from that mentality when they start something. In Writing: I see a lot of people publish their books and then not understand why...
On Stopping to Think
My kid isn’t late to school because of how fast or slow I drive. If my kid is late to school, it’s because she wasn’t ready on time.